There has been a great debate for some time now about whether or not you can be on Tinder without anyone knowing. Some say it is possible while others swear that your account will get banned. So, we decided to find out and the results were rather interesting (and unexpected). This article should hopefully bring clarity to this issue and help you make up your mind.
So, can you really be on Tinder without anyone knowing? Well, we all know that it is possible to sign in and use the app without notifying others of your doing so. We all have used Tinder when we were in a relationship and wanted to spice things up a little bit without getting caught. But what about when you are single? Can you be on Tinder without anyone knowing when you are in a relationship or married for that matter?
Well, the answer to that is yes and no. It largely depends on your location and can vary from country to country. If you live in Western Europe then the chances of not getting caught for being on Tinder while in a relationship or married is very high, but it can become a problem if you live somewhere else.
The reasons for this are as follows: In Western Europe, Tinder does not have the same social implications that it has in other countries. You will have to have a chat with your partner and see how he/she feels about being on Tinder while they are in a relationship or married. You need to be very clear with each other and then, depending on the details that you provide, you will know whether it is possible for you to use Tinder while in a relationship or not.
For example, if your partner does not care about what you do when they are not around then there is no reason why you cannot use Tinder while they are out of town or just hanging with their friends. However, if your partner cares deeply about what others think about him/her and having an affair on social media would cause problems in their current relationship then the answer would be rather simple: NO!
So, before we get into the nitty-gritty of this issue let’s look at some of our previous articles that have dealt with this issue.
One of the articles that we wrote about before is the one where we discussed why single people should not use Tinder. We explained how using it while you are single can actually cause more harm than good and that there is really no benefit in using such a feature when you do not need any help in getting dates. I guess what we are trying to say here before we get into all the details, is that if you do not care about whether or not your partner knows you use Tinder then there is nothing wrong with doing so. However, if you want to maintain a healthy relationship and do not want your partner to find out that you use Tinder then our previous article will be of use to you.
Now, let’s look at a second article. In this one, we have discussed how to tell your partner that you use Tinder. In this article, we have laid out a number of details that could be of use to you when attempting to tell you’re significant other about the way in which you choose prospective partners. We have also mentioned why it can be hard for some people and have tried to offer possible solutions for having a healthy conversation with someone whom you love or care deeply about. That being said, if there is a reason why you should not tell your partner then the chances are they will never find out regardless of what platform you use to meet new people.
So, now that we know all the ins and outs regarding our previous articles it is time to actually answer the question. Can you be on Tinder without anyone knowing? Well, as we have mentioned before it is possible to use Tinder without revealing your identity to others but this largely depends on your location and who you are trying to meet. If you live in Western Europe then it is very easy for you to do so because people will not disturb you by asking where you met the person that you are dating. But, if you live somewhere else then things can get complicated.
Our advice would be similar regardless of where you live: think carefully about why want to meet new people with no strings attached and if there is a reason that makes sense then go ahead with using Tinder. However, if there isn’t any reason why you should not tell your partner about the way in which you choose your partners then it would be best to refrain from using Tinder until or unless there is a good reason for doing so.
What should you not do on Tinder?
We all know Tinder is an incredibly popular dating app and the perfect tool for those looking to meet someone new. It’s simple, easy to use, and gives users access to a large number of people in their area at any given time. However as with every dating app out there, you’re going to need some tips on how to maximize your chances of finding a great person to go out with, and this is where we come in. We’ve found five things you should not do on tinder.
One: Don’t be boring! You’d think that because tinder gives you access to such a large number of people that it wouldn’t matter what you say or how interesting you are, but it really does. Using tinder is a lot like being on a first date and you need to have some interesting talking points just as if you were meeting someone in real life. Be fun, witty at times, and show some interest in who that person is as well as what they do for a living or their hobbies even. A tinder conversation is the ultimate first date!
Two: Don’t overdo it with the selfies. A Tinder profile can be made up of two types of pictures, one being a set that shows off your personality and interests alongside an actual selfie. However, if you decide on using only pictures of yourself it’s important not to use too many close-up tinder selfies. They’re fine every now and again, but a first impression is the first impression and tinder selfies can come off as a little self-obsessed if you overdo it.
Three: Don’t use tinder just to get laid. This may sound obvious because tinder should always be used for dating, but we’ve seen it before and tinder really is one of the best ways to get started on finding a dating partner. So if you’re only using tinder for sex, perhaps consider taking things offline where possible.
Four: Don’t lie about who you are or what you do. This may sound like common sense but tinder users lie all the time. This could be anything from lying about their age, their profession or even the fact that they have kids. If Tinder has taught us anything in recent years it’s that people are desperate for a date and will say just about anything to get one. Don’t be this person!